Touch is one of the first ways to communicate with a newborn, and one of the last ways to connect with a dying person.
Massage can still offer pleasure as one begins the journey of active dying. Family and friends who often feel there is nothing they can do for their loved ones can offer some caring touch. One does not have to be a trained massage therapist to do so. (A back rub used to be a part of the nurse’s role, a part of a hospital visit.)
Palliative massage provides may benefits:
- It is comforting and relaxing
- Touch can ease feelings of isolation and loneliness to restore a sense of well-being, feeling safe, and of belonging (the oxytocin factor).
- Symptoms like anxiety and depression may be lessened.
- It enhances quality of sleep.
- Light abdominal massage can aid in digestion. (As Cicely Sanders said, “Bowels are of upmost importance”.
- Massaging pressure points may prevent bed sores by increasing the circulation (frequent repositioning of the client is also necessary).
After 32 years as a massage therapist, and years working in palliative care (in various capacities), palliative massage is a specialty of my end-of-life doula work. I love teaching family and caregivers a few easy techniques to help their loved ones.
Some contraindications of palliative massage include working on or near cancer lesions and tumor sites, enlarged lymph nodes, sites of radiation, medical devices (such as IV and catheters), bruising, and any susupicious areas.
Application of deep or intense pressure is also not recommended. Consult with the doctor or a trained massage therapist when in doubt.
Research shows there are benefits from an intentional caring touch!
Note: Massage treatments are covered by some health care plans.
